The Disappointment Of Devolution

I know it’s Monday and I’m posting ahead of schedule, but there are extenuating circumstances. You see, in an unfortunate turn of events, we were unable to leave this morning as we’d originally planned. In fact, it’s going on two o’clock now and we still haven’t left, nor do we expect to for several more hours, owing to the fact that Trey is still with his father, presumably somewhere in the skies above Colorado right now. Unfortunately, despite having made and agreed to plans months in advance that he bring Trey back home by ten o’clock this morning, his father is citing airline difficulties as the reason for the delay. However, a quick check of the Denver International Airport (DIA) website seems to indicate that there are no such delays. There was one slight delay of one flight due to maintenance issues, but if he had tickets to that flight, one could reasonably conclude that he would have actually boarded it whenever the maintenance was completed. No, instead he has told us that he was moved to another airline entirely with a departure time roughly five hours later, regardless of the fact that there are several flights from multiple airlines leaving earlier, and none of them are showing significant delays. A quick call to DIA confirmed all of this, as the representative advised us that there was no reason he would be moved to a noon flight, rather than simply board his original airplane after the slight delay. Of course, his refusal to supply the flight number of what he claims was his original flight makes a lot of this mere speculation on my part, but I’m left questioning the need for secrecy on his part, assuming he harbors no intent to deceive.

After months of improved relations that evolved from the hideous childish antics they were into nothing more grandiose than Trey’s father simply doing what he was supposed to all along, the time he’s spent with his family in Colorado seems to have undermined whatever progress he’d made towards meeting his obligations. One could easily draw the conclusion that he has been scheduled for the later flight all along, yet felt the need to deceive us to the point of allowing us to make plans and reservations that he knew would be adversely affected by his eight hour tardiness. (For some reason, even though the later flight is scheduled to land in Houston at 3:19 and the drive from the airport to my home takes only an hour and forty minutes (according to MapQuest), we have been told that he will arrive with Trey no sooner than approximately three hours later, between 6:00 and 6:30. Sadly, this forces us to then drive the fourteen or so hours from here to Orlando in one straight shot, with the majority of that time being spent on the highway at night. Naturally, it’s always safer to drive during the day, but we have to do what we’re forced to do.

Hopefully there won’t be any further delays, as even leaving at the approximate time he’s given us and driving straight through will put us dangerously close to missing the reservations we’ve made. I think it’s very disheartening to observe a father behave in this way, to the detriment of his son. If the travel delays were genuine, I might be more forgiving, but there just seems to be no evidence that they are. Instead, it appears as though Trey’s father is merely doing what he wants to do, regardless of what he agreed to in the past, or even what’s simply in the best interest of his son. If I’m wrong and he would supply his original flight number so that the delay could be verified, I’ll happily recant my negativity, although some animosity will remain simply because he was aware of his obligation to return Trey early this morning, yet made no allowances for delays by trying to leave a bit earlier – like, say, some time last night.
I truly don’t wish to have to take him back into court, however many of his text messages to Brittany and myself indicate that we will probably be forced to. I don’t relish the thought of asking a judge to place restrictions on his ability to travel with Trey, or requesting that the court grant his mother the legal right of being supplied with an itinerary of flight numbers whenever he wants to take him out of state, but, as I said earlier, we’ll have to do what we’re forced to do, I guess. I should think that asking him to supply his flight numbers is neither unreasonable nor particularly demanding, as I consider it a simple courtesy at the lightest, and a matter of safety and awareness at the most practical level.

Like I said, if the delay was entirely out of his hands and there was no scheming intent to arrive at such a later time than originally agreed, I will gladly post at least a partial retraction of my negative feelings expressed in this entry. I don’t want to speak ill of the man, and the conspicuous lack of his presence in my essays of the past few months while he was meeting his obligations should indicate this. When he’s doing what he has agreed to, he has little effect on my life and so bears little to no mention here. I’d love to write something nice about him, but he has of yet done little to engender praise, although I don’t mind his relative absence whenever he’s simply being adequate. I certainly hope he can reclaim his previously good attitude without further legal intervention, but for now all I can to is detail the facts of the current situation and how they have affected my family, even as I continue to hold out hope that our relations are not devolving back into the terrible puerility they once were.
Keep your fingers crossed that Trey is eventually returned at some point today, and I’ll let everyone know what happens with tomorrow’s update. As for now, I’m going to try and get some sleep in before the fourteen hour drive tonight. After we get on the road today, the next time I’ll see a bed is sometime tomorrow night, and I need to get as much shut eye between now and six o’clock as I can. At least the upshot of this whole sordid affair finds me not having to pay for a hotel room tonight, as well as saving a few clams from not having to pay the house-sitter for most of today. Hooray!
UPDATE: This entry was originally written at 1:30pm, but I’ve held off the posting of it until we had Trey safely back home. According to the FAA ASDI data feed, his flight touched down at 3:02pm, and his father returned him at 5:50pm, almost eight hours after he’d agreed to be here. At this time, he unfortunately presented no information to counter my admitted speculations detailed above, so I must continue to express my disappointment in what I perceive to be deceptive and pernicious behavior. Hopefully, he will prove me wrong at some point so that I can retract this entry, and things can return to functioning smoothly between us. However, it is now just after six o’clock, and disappointed or not, we must finally get on the road. It’s going to be a long drive…



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One Comment on “The Disappointment Of Devolution

  1. Hang in there. In spite of Trey's father, you and your family will have a LARGE time visiting Mickey.